The past three weeks have been a rollercoaster of emotions for me, filled with both anticipated joys and unexpected sorrows. While my schedule has been busy with planned activities, it has also been marked by unwelcome news of the passing of people I've known for over 40 or 50 years.
It all began on August 19th when we eagerly gathered for the Ban Hin Lee Bank reunion dinner at a prominent hotel in George Town. As my wife and I stepped out of the elevator, we were greeted by uproarious laughter echoing from the end of the corridor. "That must be Lean Hin," we thought to ourselves. His laughter was unmistakable, a sound we had heard countless times during our working years and even during the times when we were no longer part of the BHLBank family. But when we entered the foyer, where people were mingling and registering, Lean Hin was nowhere to be seen. His name was absent from the registration list, indicating that he couldn't attend the reunion. However, the strangest thing was hearing a laughter so distinct that it resembled his. And it wasn't just me; my wife had noticed it too.
The next day, we received word through our grapevine that Lean Hin had passed away due to a heart ailment. He had been unwell and hospitalized for over a month, yet nobody outside his immediate family knew about it. We were all shocked, but my wife and I were perhaps the most stunned.
Our acquaintance with Lean Hin dates back to 1983. He was a fellow Old Free and a member of The Old Frees' Association, albeit several years my junior. We never crossed paths in Penang Free School. My wife was working in the bank's Bukit Mertajam branch, and Lean Hin joined the staff as a clerk that year. He was friendly and amiable, eventually ascending to the position of branch manager in Kamunting when the bank was taken over by Southern Bank. Later, he worked at the Penang Turf Club for several years. He would have celebrated his 60th birthday in 2023.
Just three days later, another surprise shook us. A friend informed me that his uncle, his father's brother, had passed away on the 23rd morning at the age of 92. I had known Chong Kee Kian for an extended period. In the late 1970s, he dropped by the Hooi Lye Association in Kimberley Street one Sunday afternoon. He had heard about the Penang Chess Association's chess sessions there and was eager to join us for some friendly games. When I saw him entering and looking around at the players, none of whom paid him any attention, I approached him for a chat. Before long, we were challenging each other on the chessboard, marking the beginning of a decades-long friendship. It later turned out that Kee Kian was also an Old Free. Although chess was a hobby for him, his true passion was ballroom dancing. On one of their milestone anniversaries, he and his wife invited my wife and me to their anniversary dinner at a prominent heritage hotel. Throughout the evening, they glided gracefully across the dance floor, the perfect dance partners for each other.
The advent of the Covid-19 pandemic took a toll on his health. However, considering he was nearly 90 years old, it wasn't entirely surprising. He spent time in intensive care on several occasions but recovered each time. Unfortunately, he was no longer strong enough to venture out on his own. I can't recall the last OFA annual dinner he attended, but whenever we met, we greeted each other like old friends.
Then, on a Tuesday, I received a message from Chee Wooi informing me that his father had passed away that morning. I initially couldn't believe the news. How could Saw Boo Pheng be dead at 71? I had no inkling he was ill, let alone on the brink of death. It took me some time to accept it, but the information came from his son, so it had to be true. The peculiar thing was that in the past week or so, his name had suddenly crossed my mind. I had the inexplicable thought that I should get in touch with him. It was a mystery as to why or how that thought had occurred, but it did. Unexplainable.
Boo Pheng and I shared a long history. We met in May or June of 1972 at Han Chiang Primary School while playing chess. He was representing the Technical Institute team, and I played for the Penang Free School team. We were strangers, but by the end of the game, we had forged a friendship that would last for decades. In 1989, fate brought us together to collaborate on writing a beginner's book on chess with another friend. The publishers wanted a Bahasa Malaysia version, and Boo Pheng stepped in to assist with the translation. As he was both a teacher and a chess player, he understood what I needed, making the translation process seamless. The book, titled "Catur," was born. Interestingly, when the publishers later requested an English version of the book, I couldn't locate my original manuscript, and I had to translate the contents from Bahasa Malaysia back into English.
Beyond chess, we shared another passion: durian. In the 1990s, he would call me to join him on a durian hunt at the fruit stalls of Balik Pulau and Paya Terubong during durian season. The fact that I would travel all the way from Bukit Mertajam to meet in Paya Terubong is a testament to our mutual love for durian. Our durian adventures lasted for three or four years before I eventually grew weary of the long drive.
So here's to Lean Hin, Kee Kian, and Boo Pheng.